{"id":530,"date":"2020-09-16T15:39:23","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T15:39:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/?p=530"},"modified":"2020-09-16T15:42:55","modified_gmt":"2020-09-16T15:42:55","slug":"the-top-tips-on-how-to-lose-your-virginity-without-pain","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/the-top-tips-on-how-to-lose-your-virginity-without-pain\/","title":{"rendered":"The Top Tips on How To Lose Your Virginity Without Pain"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>There are lots of\nperennial myths revolving around the act of sex. <strong>One of the well-known ones-\nsex hurts <a href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/havent-you-ever-had-sex-heres-what-you-need-to-know\/\">for\nthe first time<\/a>. <\/strong>The dread of pain, along with a bit of bleeding, makes\nit impossible not to be anxious. The first experience must be magical.<strong> But,\nthe prospect of pain is terrifying.<a href=\"#_ftn1\"><strong>[1]<\/strong><\/a> <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"http:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/first-time-sex-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/first-time-sex-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/first-time-sex-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/first-time-sex-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/first-time-sex.jpg 1297w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><br>\nThe truth is- Yes. Experiencing a little bit of discomfort is\ncommon among most women trying for the first time. However, it is not always\nthe case.<strong> In fact, there are ways through which the initial pain can be\nalleviated.<\/strong> This article will shed light on these very issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_77 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 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class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/the-top-tips-on-how-to-lose-your-virginity-without-pain\/#Understanding_your_Anatomy\" >Understanding\nyour Anatomy<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/the-top-tips-on-how-to-lose-your-virginity-without-pain\/#Losing_your_Virginity_without_Pain\" >Losing\nyour Virginity without Pain<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-4' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-4'><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-4' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/the-top-tips-on-how-to-lose-your-virginity-without-pain\/#1_Communicate_with_your_Partner\" >1.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\nCommunicate with your Partner<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/the-top-tips-on-how-to-lose-your-virginity-without-pain\/#2_A_pre_warmup_routine_is_helpful\" >2.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\nA pre warmup routine is helpful<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/the-top-tips-on-how-to-lose-your-virginity-without-pain\/#3_Lubes_are_Helpful\" >3.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\nLubes are Helpful<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/the-top-tips-on-how-to-lose-your-virginity-without-pain\/#4_Switch_positions_if_you_feel_uncomfortable\" >4.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\nSwitch positions if you feel\nuncomfortable<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/the-top-tips-on-how-to-lose-your-virginity-without-pain\/#5_Set_Practical_Goals\" >5.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\nSet Practical Goals<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/the-top-tips-on-how-to-lose-your-virginity-without-pain\/#6_Slow_and_Steady_Wins_the_Race\" >6.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\nSlow and Steady Wins the Race<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/the-top-tips-on-how-to-lose-your-virginity-without-pain\/#Cautionary_Advice_for_your_First_time\" >Cautionary\nAdvice for your First time<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/the-top-tips-on-how-to-lose-your-virginity-without-pain\/#Conclusion\" >Conclusion:<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_happens_differently_during_the_first_time\"><\/span>What\nhappens differently during the first time?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>A large number of\nfactors may be responsible for the pain experienced by females during sex for\nthe first time. <strong>The generally accepted definition of \u201closing your virginity\u201d\nrefers to the first penile-vaginal sex of your life.<\/strong> For some, penetration\nis the turning point. Others might also consider oral stimulation, masturbation,\nor anal sex as the threshold.<a href=\"#_ftn2\">[2]<\/a>\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thus, the generally\naccepted definition is compressible and variable from person to person. <strong>Decide\na version suitable for yourself- some even consider stimulation or toy\npenetration to be equivalent to \u201closing your virginity.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn3\"><strong>[3]<\/strong><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Other than the\nstretching of vaginal(or anal)&nbsp; muscles\nduring stimulation\/penetration- the pain during sex can result due to a large\nnumber of factors, including:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Vaginal Dryness.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Infections- Yeast infections, Urinary Tract Infections, and others.<\/li><li>Inflammations, including vaginitis and pelvic inflammatory\n     disease.<\/li><li>Endometriosis, and cystitis<\/li><li>Involuntary vaginal muscle contraction, or Vaginismus.<\/li><li>Possible allergic reactions. Reactions to condoms or lubes.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Understanding_your_Anatomy\"><\/span>Understanding\nyour Anatomy<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Familiar with the\nword hymen? <strong>Most of the discomfort that happens while having vaginal sex for\nthe first time is due to the hymen stretching.<\/strong> The stretching also leads to\nbleeding during the first intercourse.<a href=\"#_ftn4\">[4]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Hymen is a thin tissue that envelopes the entrance to the\nvagina- partially or fully.<\/strong> The hymen opening differs\nin size from person to person. It can also be thick or thin. The elasticity of\nthe hymen depends on its thickness.<a href=\"#_ftn5\">[5]<\/a>\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>A less stretchy\nhymen is what results in most of the initial pain and the bleeding among women.\n<\/strong>In reality, 99.9% of women have a perforated hymen?\nShocking. How do you assume blood gets out during periods?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>An assumption of\nthe partner\u2019s penis size being the cause of pain is unreasonable for most of\nthe time. The average size of an erect human penis is around 5 to 7 inches<strong>.\nWhile the average length of the vagina is usually between three to seven\ninches, it must not be forgotten that the vagina is highly stretchable during\nsex and <a href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/can-i-have-sex-after-giving-birth\/\">childbirth<\/a>.\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The other possible\ncauses make more sense. <strong>Some of the reasons for pain during or after sex are\ninfections(STIs), allergic reaction to condoms or <a href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/vaginal-lubricants-should-you-be-using-them\/\">lubricants<\/a>,\n<a href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/foods-that-are-healthy-for-your-vagina\/\">vaginismus<\/a>,\nand more.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Losing_your_Virginity_without_Pain\"><\/span>Losing\nyour Virginity without Pain<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>It is not\npossible to ensure that your first time experience will be completely <a href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/painful%e2%80%8b-sex-is-not-good-for-anybody-especially-you\/\">painless<\/a>.\n<\/strong>However, the following tips will help you to make the\nfirst time experience a pleasant memory in the years to come.<a href=\"#_ftn6\">[6]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Communicate_with_your_Partner\"><\/span>1.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\nCommunicate with your Partner<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/the-top-health-benefits-of-sex\/\">Sex is one\nof the most basic yet intimate human acts<\/a>. <strong>Understanding your likes,\npreferences, and discomfort is important.<\/strong> Equally important is letting your\npartner know- be it your spouse, partner, friend, or acquaintance. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Be honest and open.<\/strong> Do not hesitate in the\nslightest about opening up to your partner about your concerns- anything and\neverything. Being vulnerable is not a moment of weakness. After all, you will\nbe sharing your body with that person. <strong>This gives you every right to express\nhow you feel- before, after, and during sex.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_A_pre_warmup_routine_is_helpful\"><\/span>2.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\nA pre warmup routine is helpful<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Friction due to a dry surface is both painful and uncomfortable.<\/strong> The best way to resolve the issue is by ensuring proper lubrication\nbefore you and your partner indulge yourselves fully in the deed. <strong>This way,\nyou can increase your chances of having a great memorable experience- with less\nfirst-time sex pain.<\/strong> This is why foreplay is often rated more important\nthan sex itself.<a href=\"#_ftn7\">[7]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Try\nto arouse each other. <strong>There are many things that both you and your partner\ncan actually do to evoke erotic feelings.<\/strong> For starters, try taking a steamy\nshower along with your partner. Whispering naughty nothings into each other\u2019s\near is great for enticing each other. Kissing, touching, oral sex, stimulation-\ntry anything that keeps things burning, and moist. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>In addition to setting things up for sex, foreplay can also elevate the\npleasure levels up to a great extent.<\/strong> The woman\u2019s body\nis built differently. Find out your pleasure spots. This is helpful for both\nyou and your partner.<a href=\"#_ftn8\">[8]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Lubes_are_Helpful\"><\/span>3.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\nLubes are Helpful<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>There\nare different types of lubricants available online or in the market. They ease\nthe process of sliding in and out- making it less painful. <strong>Lubricants are\nalso recommended for anal sex- as there is no natural lubrication inside the\nanus<\/strong>. Several women also use them while using fingers or sex toys.<a href=\"#_ftn9\">[9]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Avoid anything oil-based in case your partner uses a condom.<\/strong> The oil can create a hole in the condom- rendering it useless.\nInstead, switch to a water-based lubricant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"980\" height=\"492\" src=\"http:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sideways-swoon-1573068597.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sideways-swoon-1573068597.jpg 980w, https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sideways-swoon-1573068597-300x151.jpg 300w, https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/sideways-swoon-1573068597-768x386.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 980px) 100vw, 980px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Switch_positions_if_you_feel_uncomfortable\"><\/span>4.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\nSwitch positions if you feel\nuncomfortable<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/gaintrial.com\/en\/how-long-should-sex-last\/\">Changing sex\npositions<\/a> can help in alleviating the pain that you might experience during\nsex.<\/strong> Adventurous and acrobatic positions can greatly\nenhance the experience for both you and your partner. <strong>However, experts\nrecommend keeping things for your first time- safe and simple- instead of\nexperimenting.<\/strong> Use a pillow or two below your pelvis if necessary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The position selection depends on both of your genitals and the type of\nsexual activity you want to indulge in.<a href=\"#_ftn10\"><strong>[10]<\/strong><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Recommended\npositions for first-timers include:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Missionary (Man on top, Woman on\nback)<ul><li>Cowgirl (Woman on top, Man on\nBack)<\/li><\/ul><ul><li>Doggy Style (Man from behind,\nwoman on all-fours)<\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Set_Practical_Goals\"><\/span>5.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\nSet Practical Goals<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>One of the best ways to relieve yourself of anxiety and pressure is by\nsetting practical and realistic goals.<\/strong> For both men\nand women, this is a big step. Sure, you want the moment to be just right and\nperfect. The need to have your partner receive an orgasm might be the most\nimportant thing on your mind. <strong>While you are not wrong- there is actually no\nneed to feel bad about yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>It is possible to give and receive an orgasm the first time you are\nhaving sex- but that is not always the case.<\/strong> Like any\nother learnable activity (e.g., driving, swimming, or riding)- your skill in\nsex improves with practice. Practicality is key- do not go dreaming about an\nunreal fantasy, as shown in movies.<a href=\"#_ftn11\">[11]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Slow_and_Steady_Wins_the_Race\"><\/span>6.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;\nSlow and Steady Wins the Race<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Awareness\nis a great virtue. <strong>Nervousness won\u2019t be helping you in any way- other than\nhastening the entire act (and probably ruining the experience for your\npartner). <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Be slow, gentle, and attentive to your partner.<\/strong> Pick up the pace if you both feel like it. Going slow is especially\nrecommended during the first time. It allows relaxation of the vaginal(or anal)\nmuscles. The way you can get accustomed to the feeling of penetration. <strong>Communicate\nwith your partner if you want to take things slower or faster.<\/strong> Unlike the\nfilm scenes- a little bedtime humor can result in a more intimate experience.<a href=\"#_ftn12\">[12]<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cautionary_Advice_for_your_First_time\"><\/span>Cautionary\nAdvice for your First time<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>There is no\ndoubt that the first sex experience is special and memorable.<\/strong> However, the following information must be kept in mind before you get\non with the deed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Contracting a Sexually Transmitted Infection(STI) is not\n     impossible, even for the first time. Always use protection and preventive\n     measures.&nbsp; Possible\n     STIs\/contractions&nbsp; include:<\/li><li>Chlamydia<\/li><li>Gonorrhea<\/li><li>Genital Herpes<\/li><li>HPV (Human papillomaVirus)<\/li><li>HIV<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Penis In Vagina Sex can result in pregnancy for the first time\n     too. Ensure the necessary use of suitable contraceptive options from the\n     following:<\/li><li>Oral contraceptives (The Pill)<\/li><li>IUDs or intrauterine devices<\/li><li>Birth Control Implants<\/li><li>Depo-Provera (aka the Shot)<\/li><li>Condoms<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Conclusion\"><\/span>Conclusion:<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Your first-time\nsex experience does not need to be a painful, nightmarish experience.<\/strong> Take precautions and reduce stress to have a pleasant, memorable, and\nenjoyable experience.&nbsp; <strong>Do not forget\nto use a condom or other barrier-method contraceptive options.<\/strong> This\nprotects you from unwanted pregnancy, as well as STI\/STDs.<a href=\"#_ftn13\">[13]<\/a><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC5437416\/\">https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC5437416\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\">[2]<\/a> Independent Forensic Expert\nGroup Statement on virginity testing.&nbsp;J Forensic Leg Med.&nbsp;2015;33:121\u20134.\ndoi: 10.1016\/j.jflm.2015.02.012.&nbsp;[<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/26048511\">PubMed<\/a>]\n[<a href=\"https:\/\/dx.doi.org\/10.1016%2Fj.jflm.2015.02.012\">CrossRef<\/a>]&nbsp;[<a href=\"https:\/\/scholar.google.com\/scholar_lookup?journal=J+Forensic+Leg+Med&amp;title=Statement+on+virginity+testing&amp;volume=33&amp;publication_year=2015&amp;pages=121-4&amp;pmid=26048511&amp;doi=10.1016\/j.jflm.2015.02.012&amp;\">Google Scholar<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref3\">[3]<\/a> Shalhoub-Kevorkian N.\nImposition of virginity testing: a life-saver or a license to kill?&nbsp;Soc\nSci Med.&nbsp;2005;60(6):1187\u201396. doi: 10.1016\/j.socscimed.2004.07.015.&nbsp;[<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/15626516\">PubMed<\/a>]\n[<a href=\"https:\/\/dx.doi.org\/10.1016%2Fj.socscimed.2004.07.015\">CrossRef<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref4\">[4]<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC3572537\/\">https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC3572537\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref5\">[5]<\/a>[5] Carpenter LM.&nbsp;Virginity\nlost: An intimate portrait of first sexual experiences.&nbsp;New York\nUniversity; New York: 2005.&nbsp;[<a href=\"https:\/\/scholar.google.com\/scholar_lookup?title=Virginity+lost:+An+intimate+portrait+of+first+sexual+experiences&amp;author=LM+Carpenter&amp;publication_year=2005&amp;\">Google Scholar<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref6\">[6]<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC6547601\/\">https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC6547601\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref7\">[7]<\/a> Darroch JE, Landry DJ, Oslak\nS. Age differences between sexual partners in the United States.&nbsp;Family\nPlanning Perspectives.&nbsp;1999;31:160\u2013167.&nbsp;[<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/10435214\">PubMed<\/a>]&nbsp;[<a href=\"https:\/\/scholar.google.com\/scholar_lookup?journal=Family+Planning+Perspectives&amp;title=Age+differences+between+sexual+partners+in+the+United+States.&amp;author=JE+Darroch&amp;author=DJ+Landry&amp;author=S+Oslak&amp;volume=31&amp;publication_year=1999&amp;pages=160-167&amp;pmid=10435214&amp;\">Google Scholar<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref8\">[8]<\/a> Sprecher S, Barbee A,\nSchwartz P. \u201cWas it good for you, too?\u201d: Gender differences in first sexual\nintercourse experiences.&nbsp;Journal of Sex Research.&nbsp;1995;32:3\u201315.&nbsp;[<a href=\"https:\/\/scholar.google.com\/scholar_lookup?journal=Journal+of+Sex+Research&amp;title=%E2%80%9CWas+it+good+for+you,+too?%E2%80%9D:+Gender+differences+in+first+sexual+intercourse+experiences.&amp;author=S+Sprecher&amp;author=A+Barbee&amp;author=P+Schwartz&amp;volume=32&amp;publication_year=1995&amp;pages=3-15&amp;\">Google Scholar<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref9\">[9]<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4965672\/\">https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4965672\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref10\">[10]<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC7236214\/\">https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC7236214\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref11\">[11]<\/a> Thompson S. Putting a big\nthing into a little hole: Teenage girls\u2019 accounts of sexual initiation.&nbsp;Journal\nof Sex Research.&nbsp;1990;27:341\u2013361.&nbsp;[<a href=\"https:\/\/scholar.google.com\/scholar_lookup?journal=Journal+of+Sex+Research&amp;title=Putting+a+big+thing+into+a+little+hole:+Teenage+girls%E2%80%99+accounts+of+sexual+initiation.&amp;author=S+Thompson&amp;volume=27&amp;publication_year=1990&amp;pages=341-361&amp;\">Google Scholar<\/a>]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref12\">[12]<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4085661\/\">https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4085661\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref13\">[13]<\/a> Weis DK. Affective reactions\nof women to their initial experience of coitus.&nbsp;Journal of Sex\nResearch.&nbsp;1983;19:209\u2013237.&nbsp;[<a href=\"https:\/\/scholar.google.com\/scholar_lookup?journal=Journal+of+Sex+Research&amp;title=Affective+reactions+of+women+to+their+initial+experience+of+coitus.&amp;author=DK+Weis&amp;volume=19&amp;publication_year=1983&amp;pages=209-237&amp;\">Google Scholar<\/a>]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are lots of perennial myths revolving around the act of sex. One of the well-known ones- sex hurts for the first time. 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